Baby Gender Selection

Baby Gender Selection

It is amazing that over 80% of couples trying to conceive a baby state that if they could, they would pick the gender of their baby. While every baby is a blessing and a gift, many of us can’t deny that when we think about getting pregnant or think back to when we were pregnant that we wished for a baby girl or a baby boy. For some reason, we just felt it important… or more ideal to have one over the other.

There are a few things that you can do medically to help increase the likelihood of having one gender over the other. They are expensive and rather inconvenient. Most often they require you to get pregnant their invitro fertilization or other medical means.

However, if you are set on having a baby boy instead of baby girl, you may want to talk with your doctor about the different procedures, their effectiveness and the outcome percentages. Some have said that the only way you can absolutely guarantee that you have the baby you want is to adopt, there are others that are willing to give a number of old fashioned recommendations a try.

Some of those methods include the Shettles method. This can be used to have a boy or a girl, though overall it is more successful for conceiving a girl. The method was created by a doctor and there is some sound medical advice the supports the theories. Though it is not 100%.

There are also people that believe baby gender selection can be left to the foods that you consumer. Creating a more alkaline or more acidic environment makes it more favorable for one sex over the other. Some favorite foods if you want to have a girl include sweets and fresh veggies, whereas if you are looking to have a boy then you want to go for salty snacks and red meat.

Some people have said that the date of the month, odd or even, will impact the sex of the baby. There are other people that believe the phases of the moon can impact whether you have a boy or a girl. Different sexual positions can impact whether you are having a girl or a boy as well as who has the orgasm first, or if the woman should have one at all.

Many medical professionals even recommend that when a couple is trying to conceive that the man changes the undergarments he wears. Instead of wearing briefs he needs to wear boxers to help keep the treasure cool.

You may also find it interesting to know that while men do produce less sperm as they age, the sperm that they have only lives for three months.

So when couples go to the doctor to discuss ways to increase their chances of conceiving the doctors are going to look at the age of the women. Ladies the eggs you have when you are 35 are the same eggs you had when you were just a fetus in your mom’s womb.

There is nothing wrong with trying different things to influence the sex of your baby. Secretly we all wish we have control over the baby gender selection process.

Getting Ready For A Baby

Getting Ready For A Baby

How To Get Ready For A Baby

Even if you are still recovering from the joyful news that you are going to have baby, you will find that there are lots of things that need to be done to prepare. Whether you are a new parent or someone who has been through this before, take some time between getting the crib ready and purchasing baby clothes to consider some steps for welcoming your new son or daughter home.

1.Tell your other children
Some children will take news that they have a new sibling incoming with perfect grace, while others will become very fretful and nervous. Take time to remind them that you still love them and how you are going to need their help.

2.Gather a support network
You may be going into this on your own, or you may have a loving support spouse by your side, but remember that having more people around is important. Remember to get out and talk with friends and family. Get their support in what is a very happy, but very stressful time.

3.Accept other emotions.
When you are expecting a baby, you will find that you are going to be besieged with different emotions, and it might surprise you that not all of them are pleasant. A baby is going to change your life, and it is okay to be nervous or fearful. Work them out, find solutions and take some time to process them.

4.Classes, classes, classes!
Today, you will find that there are lots of reasons to try to take classes on prenatal care. You never know when there is going to be some information that you need, or when you are going to meet some new people, so don’t hesitate to sign up.

5.Pet care
Once you have talked to your other children, think about your pets. How is your dog or cat’s behavior and how is that going to mesh with a new baby? Take some time and make sure that you consider taking your pet to obedience training and don’t hesitate to make sure that he or she is introduced to your new baby as soon as it is possible. The sooner they start getting used to each other, the better!

6.Consider green alternatives

It is easy to say that you want to take care of your baby in a way that doesn’t harm or impact the environment, but you will find that the more planning you do, the happier you are going to be. Consider things like the source of diapers or what sort of food you are considering.

Having a baby is a life-changing event, and it is natural to be nervous. Take some time and make sure that you are preparing everything for the big day; it is much easier than you think!

What To Do If Your Child Has Chicken Pox

What to do if your Child has Chicken Pox

Just about all of us have had them, the dreaded chicken pox.  Although for the majority of us that was years ago so when our kids get them, we’re not quite sure what to do.  So here are some tips for you on what to do if you child has the chicken pox (or if you think they do).

Chicken pox is a common affliction that affects people of all ages but is most commonly seen in children.  The symptoms of chicken pox are red bumps on the body that turn into blisters and that increase in quantity over several days.  The bumps may look like insect bites or a rash and is often difficult to diagnose the first few days.  Often, it is accompanied by a fever.  Watch the bumps to see if they turn into blisters and if more bumps emerge over a few days.  If so, it is likely chicken pox.

Most cases of chicken pox do not even need a consultation with a physician and are easily treatable.  However there are times when consulting a doctor is advisable.  If after three days you are still unsure of the diagnosis, consult a doctor.  If the child is an infant, take the little one to the doctor.  If your child’s bumps seem infected or are located on eyelids, it is best to get it checked.  Also, if your child seems unusually ill, has severe headaches, a high fever that lasts more than five days, or if the child develops other cold like symptoms such as a cough a doctor’s opinion should be sought.

Basically, when in doubt, take the little fella to the doctor.

Chicken pox is highly contagious and the child should be quarantined for the duration.  Do not allow the child to interact with peers at school or with friends.  Once the child starts getting spots, it will take approximately seven days until he or she is no longer contagious.  The day after all the spots have scabbed, the child will no longer be contagious and can resume normal activity.

The accompanying fever should only be treated if it is above 101° F.  Studies indicate a slight fever will help the child heal.  Motrin, Advil or Tylenol can be used to treat the fever.  Use only acetaminophen and ibuprofen products for fever but do not use aspirin.  A child can have a severe reaction to aspirin during this time so it is important not to use it.

The child should try not to scratch the bumps because it may cause infection.  Take greater care to keep the fingernails short and clean during this time.  Frequent baths will help soothe the itching.  Adding oatmeal to the bath will also help.  Brands such as Aveeno are ideal for this.  Benadryl or other off-brand topical antihistamines can be used as needed and greatly reduce the itching.  These are readily available over-the-counter at any pharmacy.

Children who have chicken pox and who have a slight fever but otherwise seem well typically do not need to see a doctor.  Ensure they stay isolated until the ailment passes and they are no longer contagious.  See a doctor if unusual symptoms occur or if the child seems very ill.  Chicken pox is a common ailment, easily treated, and quickly recovered from.  Most people only get one case of chicken pox in a lifetime.

Are You Pregnant? Pregnancy Guide

Are You Pregnant?

So you and your partner have just discovered that you are going to be parents. You realize that not only are you thrilled with the prospect of becoming a parent; you are also terrified of the road that lies ahead. If this is your first baby you are probably wondering what life has in store for you and exactly what changes are going to occur along the way.

The early signs of pregnancy will quickly be replaced with the later stages of pregnancy. Those nine months do go by very quickly. You will go from first learning the results of your pregnancy test to delivering a bouncing baby boy or girl.

One of the most important things to consider when you first find out you are expecting is medical care. Healthy babies are born to healthy mothers. You want to ensure that you are doing everything in your power to give your child the best foundation for a healthy life. Your doctor will initially run some tests to determine if everything is in order.

The doctor will also chart your progress through the different stages of pregnancy. They will explain in detail the different stages of fetal development and what is happening with your baby during each month. The doctor will also routinely weigh you and measure your stomach to determine the size of the baby. An ultrasound test will probably be in your future and the doctor may even tell you the gender of the baby.

When your friends and family discover you are pregnant they will have many pregnancy tips to offer. Everything from where to learn Lamaze techniques to what foods you need to be eating will be offered. Although all well-wishers want to believe you will follow their advice when it comes to a diet for pregnant women, you are best off to ask the advice of your doctor or nutritionist.

With the arrival of your new bundle of joy comes a whole host of things you’ll need to buy. The first are actually for you and no doubt you’ll want maternity clothes that reflect your own personal style. You can find maternity clothes that are appropriate for almost any occasion. There are even bikinis for expectant mothers to wear as they exercise in the water. If you are too shy for that consider a one piece but don’t forego the exercise, it’s an essential part of a healthy pregnancy.

Get ready for everything to change once the baby arrives. Three am feedings and days without a shower will become the norm. No longer is your life your own, instead you’ll feel compelled to tend to that wonderful new member of your family. Enjoy each and every moment of your pregnancy. You will be happy when the baby arrives and you will also have all of the memories of the months spent getting ready for the most important day of your life, the day you become a parent.

Lamaze Techniques

Lamaze Techniques

Preparing for a baby is a thrilling and exciting time. There’s so much to do including decorating the nursery, arranging for maternity leave and choosing the baby’s name. Another task that both expectant parents should be focused on is taking Lamaze classes.

Lamaze classes are offered in most communities to expectant parents. They have been taught for years and although the practices may have changed over the course of time, the principles remain the same.

Lamaze is a series of techniques that ready the parents for the process of a natural childbirth. This involves various practices that help empower both the expectant mother and the father-to-be. They are often given in a small class setting over a period of time. The typical Lamaze course involves twelve separate sessions, each focusing on a different technique.

One of the most well-known techniques of Lamaze is the breathing. You probably have seen it demonstrated on television or in a movie. It consists of a series of breathing techniques that help the mother to focus and also helps to move the birth process along. They are designed to relax the mother so her body can do what it needs to do.

The father’s role is to act as a guide and motivator during delivery. He learns the same breathing techniques so when the moment arrives he is there to remind the mother. It can be difficult to recall all of the techniques when in labor.

Another important aspect of Lamaze is movement. Mothers are encouraged to move during their labor as opposed to remaining in the hospital bed. Walking, stretching and massage techniques are covered in the Lamaze classes. It is widely believed that a woman who remains active during labor can actually help the process move along quicker. The father’s role is again to encourage and he will be taught several massage techniques that can help with the pain of contractions.

Lamaze also focuses on what should be done if something goes amiss during labor. It’s very important for the couple to remain calm during the delivery. This can be almost impossible if a problem is occurring but when confounded with the rising blood pressure of the mother, the baby can easily be in distress. Lamaze teaches the couple how to relax and put their trust in the medical professionals.

One important technique that is taught in Lamaze that is often overlooked is breastfeeding. Breastfeeding comes naturally to an infant but it can take mom a bit of time to get the hang of it.
After delivery the mother will be exhausted but a hungry infant doesn’t understand the concept of patience. Therefore it’s very helpful to focus on breastfeeding techniques during the Lamaze classes. If the mother is relaxed and open with the concept, the baby will sense this and will enjoy the experience so much more.

Lamaze classes are a wonderful way for the expectant parents to learn the techniques they need for the delivery and the days following. It’s also a great way for pregnant couples to interact with others in the same situation. Many of the participants in Lamaze classes plan reunions after the births of their babies so they can see what the fruits of their labors produced. It’s simply a wonderful experience for all involved.

Pregnancy Tips – Getting Ready For Baby

Pregnancy Tips

The nine months before the birth of a baby is one of the most important and exciting times in any woman’s life. It’s a time for anticipating the future and readying for the new addition to the family.

There are many things that need to be done while pregnant, but it can seem like the time flies by and before you know it you are bringing your new daughter or son home from the hospital. With some careful planning you can have more time to spend with the new arrival. Just by doing a few things during the pregnancy, the transition from expectant mom to parent can be seamless.

Some important tips during pregnancy revolve around you, the mom-to-be. The first is to get your rest. Many people will probably tell you that once the baby is born you’re not going to sleep much. To someone who has never had a baby this may seem like an exaggeration, but it’s not. Infants are cute, they are cuddly and they are demanding!

Once the baby is born, it has entered an entirely new world. It doesn’t understand what a schedule is and going to bed at 8 pm is probably not in their agenda. Babies have no concept of time and they simply cannot occupy themselves at three in the morning. If you are nursing this is particularly relevant as you will have to be the one tending to the baby when it’s feeding time. Get as much rest as you can in the weeks before the birth; you will be glad you did.

Take swimming or yoga classes while pregnant. Gentle exercise is not only relaxing, it’s also encouraged. Keeping fit is important for the delivery and also for the weeks following the delivery. It’s also a great way to socialize.

Purchase all the essentials before the baby arrives. You don’t want to be out buying diapers on the day you are discharged from the hospital. Create a soothing nursery for the baby and stock it with everything you need so that you can spend all of your time focused on the little one.

Arrange for child care. This may seem a bit foolish before the baby is born, but after its arrival you are going to need to get out once in a while. Many couples plan on one evening out every two weeks or each month and it’s important to leave the baby in the care of someone you trust. This may be a family member or a close friend. It’s difficult for many moms to leave their baby for the first time and if it’s something that you’ve planned for awhile you’ll feel more comfortable.

Pick a pediatrician before the baby arrives. The baby’s doctor is someone you’ll really need to trust and someone who is accessible. The best way to find a pediatrician is to either ask your doctor for a referral or you can also ask a friend with an infant for their pediatrician’s name. Although your baby will most likely be healthy when it’s born you will need to see the baby doctor with any concerns. It’s much less stressful to have that person in place before the big day arrives.

With a little planning and some forethought you can welcome the baby with little stress. Having a baby is a big event and just like any major production, planning makes it that much better.

How To Care For A Baby

For new parents bringing their newborn home is a time for joy and celebration. A brand new nursery, a baby-proofed house, exciting experiences – there are so many things waiting for the happy family.

But, it doesn’t take long for mom and dad to discover that the newborn baby has a mind of his own and will make his presence felt in a hundred and one ways – not all of them amusing. As most parents will tell you, it’s all a matter of practice and patience.

Feeding your baby: The first of the many tough decisions you have to make is whether to breastfeed or bottle-feed your baby. Research suggests that breast milk is the best food for a young baby. Always remember to burp your baby gently after a feeding. While feeding from the bottle, make sure your baby is not taking in air bubbles. When your baby is ready to accept semi-solids and solids, introduce one food at a time. Allow him some time to get used to each food. Give him lots of fresh juice and water. Avoid store-bought articles that are high in starch and sugar.

Diapering: This is the next major decision you have to make. Cloth, disposables or diaper service – which will it be? Each has its own pros and cons. Parents usually make a decision based on time, convenience, environmental concerns and financial considerations.

The sanest advice I’ve received is to avoid a puritanical fascination for any one type. Use a combination – probably cotton diapers for home, and disposables while traveling.

Bathing and Grooming: If your baby makes his bath look like the closing scene from a battleground, use baby baths to secure him and lots of toys to distract him. Never leave you baby unattended near water. After your baby’s bath, bundle him up in a nice fluffy towel and dry him thoroughly. Make sure the umbilical area is dry and that the eyes, ears and nose are clean. You may need to clean these with a wet washcloth, but never insert buds into them. Trim your baby’s nails just after a bath. Applying moisturizer or baby powder is a matter of personal choice.

Sleeping: Put your baby to sleep on his back. Your baby is bound to steal a lot of your sleep. During the first year of his life, he will wake up a number of times at night. Many parents try different techniques from co-sleeping to a no-hands approach. Choose whatever works for you.

Common health problems include colic, diaper rash, cradle cap and skin rash. Many of these problems need just a little extra care and patience. If your baby is in pain, take him to your doctor. Remember to record his inoculations and keep a height-weight chart to evaluate your baby’s progress.

Traveling: Pack all the items you need along with plenty of extra clothes and diapers. Place your baby in a safe and secure car seat. Go easy on feeding while you travel. Avoid crowds during the first few months.

Safety and comfort are two of the most important things to keep in mind when you handle your baby. It is a good idea to have a fairly regular schedule for bathing, feeding, playing and sleeping.

Your baby will always respond to a warm, loving environment. Hold your baby, cuddle him and respond to his cries. It is impossible to ’spoil’ a little baby. Let your love overflow. Most of all enjoy early parenthood – kids grow up very fast.

Baby Gear

The arrival of a new baby is always a momentous event. A whole lot of preparations have been leading up to the moment and you have put in a lot of effort and time preparing yourself and your home. The nervous excitement that precedes every baby’s arrival means that some essential items get overlooked. But naturally, it is difficult to focus on the mundane day-to-day needs at such a time.

Most parents-to-be begin by setting up a nursery. Usually, a crib is the first piece of furniture you get your baby. A good crib should meet all voluntary and mandatory safety guidelines. Many parents are so caught up with the blue flowers and the pink bows that they sometimes ignore the need for safety. A cardinal rule of thumb before purchasing any baby gear is: safety first. As your bundle of joy will be spending more than two-thirds of his or her time lying down, a quality crib mattress and soft bedding are also necessary. And while you’re at it, pick up a mattress cover too! A baby-monitor is absolutely necessary in your child’s nursery. You may also want to get a changing table and a baby walker.

Sometimes, baby gear falls drastically short when it comes to baby clothes. Most new parents, (especially Moms) focus inordinately on getting all the ‘cute’ outfits. In the hurry to grab those oh-so-wonderful must-haves, essentials are forgotten. Absorbent baby blankets, cotton baby suits, bibs and soft innerwear are items that you really can’t have enough of. Sometimes baby clothes have to be changed faster than diapers. That’s because for the first year of their lives, babies are essentially messy, slobbering, waste-producing machines. But beware of the buy-it-all syndrome that some mothers suffer from. You should not have so many suits that you end up with a pile of unused baby clothes that Junior has outgrown. Half a dozen clean outfits at any given time should suffice. When you travel, pack extra.

A new baby means a whole new range of toiletries too. You will need baby oil, baby soap and shampoo and of course, baby powder. This last is useful when you need to keep your baby’s bottom dry. Choose a baby powder that has no talcum powder base; a cornstarch base would be ideal for the little tyke. Purchase ONLY mild baby soap and shampoo, as chemicals will be harsh on your baby’s tender skin. Also purchase a high-quality, natural moisturizer. To keep yourself on top of all these easy-to-overlook items, it’s probably a good idea to make a list of items and then go shopping (with the list, of course!).

When all the necessary furniture and supplies have been bought, you may want to get some things for fun and entertainment. While your baby will be busy learning from all the interesting little things going on around him or her, some toys will help soothe frayed nerves. One excellent toy for your baby is a mobile. Fluffy, soft toys that provide some kind of sensory stimulation are also quite handy. As your baby gets a little older, teething toys become absolutely essential. Baby toys are an exciting world in themselves.

With all these items safely tucked away in the nursery, there’s only one thing for you to do – wait for your adorable baby to make his or her entrance into the world!

Baby Health and Grooming

When you have been grooming yourself for close to twenty years or more, keeping a tiny baby comfy and clean may seem like a no-brainer. But, any parent will tell you that basic care and grooming of an infant presents some challenges that are unique to little ones.

From treating cradle cap and cleaning earwax to trimming nails and hair, there are a whole lot of things that take on a new dimension when you have to do it to a tiny human being.

How often should you bathe your baby?

A young infant is mostly on his back all day and does little more than drinking milk and pooping. As such, he does not need to be bathed more than three times a week. Keep your baby’s face and diaper area totally clean, ALWAYS. The rest of the body does not really get dirty.

Once the baby starts getting about on all fours, you will have to keep his hands and legs clean, which means a bath every other day. By the age of one, toddlers start getting really messy. A daily bath is now in order. If you live in a warm place, you can go ahead and give your baby a cool bath everyday. But in cold places, too much washing with soap and water can dry out the skin.

What are the common skin problems that little babies develop?

Baby acne:
They are little pimples that appear on the baby’s face a few days after birth, and usually go away without any treatment. These may recur a few times throughout the first few months and do not need a specific treatment. Some babies develop eczema, especially if it runs in the family. In that case, a natural, light, all-purpose moisturizer keeps skin soft and supple.

Cradle cap:
This is an accumulation of dead skin on the scalp, especially on the crown. To remove this, apply mild baby oil and massage the head lightly. Comb your baby’s hair gently to get the flakes out. Then wash his head with a mild shampoo. Bathing your baby’s head regularly helps keep this condition under control. Babies usually outgrow this after the first few months.

Diaper rash: Diaper rash is most commonly caused by yeast infection or irritated skin. Change your baby’s diaper frequently to avoid skin irritation. Once an irritation becomes apparent, stop using wipes. Switch over to water and cotton. Leave your baby’s tushie open to the air. Never use powder when the skin looks red. This compounds the problem. Consult your doctor if the problem worsens.

What are the other aspects of grooming?

Ear and nose care:
Sticking a cotton swab into a baby’s ear or nose is absolutely taboo.

Clean the outer ear with a slightly wet washcloth. Wax will come out of its own accord.

You need clean only the wax that may get collected in the outer ear cavity. Mucus can be cleaned with the end of a wet washcloth. If the nose is uncomfortably stuffed due to a cold, contact your doctor.

Mouth care:
A young baby drinks milk many times a day, and as such is prone to infections of the mouth. Using a wet cloth, you can wipe his gums and tongue gently after each feeding. As teeth begin to appear, you can start with a baby tooth brush.

Finger nails:
A baby’s fingernails are very thin but exceedingly sharp. He can scratch himself in the ears or other sensitive areas if the nails are not trimmed. Use a pair of blunt-tipped fingernail scissors when your baby is sleeping. His nails are soft just after a bath. Do not cut too close and NEVER use nail clippers. Even with a lot of care, parents may clip off the tip of the finger while using clippers.

How To Baby Proof Your Home

When babies first come into the world, it’s difficult to imagine them as being anything but fragile and helpless. But even when your baby seems too small to do himself any harm, lo and behold, he has managed to bunch his blankets around his face or roll off a raised bed. Some of these experiences are amusing, but most are painful; and a few turn tragic.

Children are naturally curious. They are made that way so they can learn through touch, taste and feeling. The world around them seems pretty colorful and Junior is in a hurry to learn it all at once. But as a parent, you have to ensure the safety of your child by restraining him. It is not possible to supervise your child relentlessly. The only option is baby proofing.

Baby proofing means making certain areas of your house one hundred percent safe for your baby. Ideally, such an area should be a place where you can allow your little one to romp without any restraint. So, what does baby proofing require?

Let’s start with the nursery. Crib slats should be about 2 3/8 inches apart, so your baby’s head does not get trapped. Bedding should be soft, but not loose. The crib mattress must fit tightly in the crib so the child cannot fall into any gaps. Never place the crib near window cords. When the baby starts sitting up, remove any mobiles and toys tied to the crib. Exercise caution if your baby is sleeping with you. Never place your precious one on soft surfaces like quilts, sofas, waterbeds or large soft toys.

Small children are prone to choking hazards. Lock away all such items that are easy for your baby to put into his mouth. Electrical sockets hold a special fascination for little children. Replace existing outlet plates with safety plates that automatically cover the outlet when a socket is unplugged. Videos, CD players and all electronic items should be locked away safely. Remember, most household equipment is just the right height for your baby to crawl into or pull open. Your refrigerator, washing machine, dishwasher and oven must remain out of bounds to the little one.

Most kitchen cabinets and bathrooms hold poisonous chemicals, potent medicine and beauty products. Lock these items away or install a high shelf that baby cannot reach. Any areas that once held poisonous materials like insecticides must be cleaned thoroughly because children have a curious fixation with eating the wrong things from wrong places. Just a tablespoon of salt can prove deadly for an infant weighing 25 pounds or less.

Your bathroom should be baby proofed with utmost care. Babies can easily drown in very little water. Never leave your baby alone in the bathroom. Medicine cabinets must be locked. Do not use a baby monitor anywhere near water. Always test the water for warmth before giving your little one a bath. Install dual locks so that the child does not accidentally lock himself in. Staircases must always have safety gates, and these must be locked when your baby is up and about.

Be extra careful with what he puts into his mouth. Do not go near the stove with your baby in your arms. All utensils should have their handles turned to their back.

Always keep a first aid kit ready and well stocked. Have all emergency numbers at hand.
A little caution combined with some common sense is all you need to baby proof your home effectively.